Your wedding may be the best night of your life, but when the party is over, creating a partnership is hard work. "Merging two lives can actually be very frustrating," says Dr. Phil in his Tip of the Day. "Think about it, you're going to have to start sharing space, and time, and energy and money. You're going to have to start creating a division of labor, you're going to have to start making compromises."

Watch the video to hear his best strategy for having your partner live up to your expectations, and how to be the kind of partner who your spouse will cherish.

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