As summer begins, we become more open to meeting new people. The last thing we want is a summer fling, because these types of relationships don't last, nor do they add any real value to our lives. We want real substance so that we can feel a sense of love and companionship year round. Below are a list of 10 steps to avoiding a seasonal dating experience.

Step 1: Completely end one relationship before starting a new one.

Step 2: When you meet someone new, talk on the phone first to determine whether or not he/she is worthy of spending your time with on a date.

Step 3: Go out on several dates with different qualified candidates and discuss goals & values.

Step 4: Settle on the absolute best candidate who compliments your goals & values.

Step 5: After a few months of dating, give the relationship a title!

Step 6: Continue to date one another exclusively and plan date nights!

Step 7: Include your new partner in your personal and professional endeavors.

Step 8: Introduce your new partner to your family, friends, and loved ones.

Step 9: Associate with people and places that encourage relationship success.

Step 10: Plan the next upgrade to your relationship.

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-Cheyenne Bostock
Life & Relationship Expert