Do you take a Pollock approach to painting your nails? When you drink, do you choose shots over wine? Is wearing heels an intense mental exercise, requiring constant attention to prevent an ER visit?

If you relate to any or all of these things, you might just be unladylike. But fear not, being unladylike can be endearing, and BuzzFeed and writer/comedienne Grace Helbig remind us that "not being a lady doesn't mean you're not a woman." Some of us just find the demands of femininity a little more difficult than others. Can you blame us?